Is That a Tattoo?
September 8, 2008
For my 50th birthday, I got a tattoo. This wasn’t a “spur-of-the-moment” decision for me. I’d given it a great deal of thought. Some people have been honestly surprised, even shocked. Others have offered their approval, maybe because they, too, have a tattoo, or they really want one, but someone won’t let them go for it. Whatever the response, I’m still happy with my choice.
Getting a tattoo is just the first decision. You then have to confront the what, where, and who of the “tat” decision, choices that were not too tough for me. I first considered the word, Shalom, in Hebrew, engraved across my left wrist, and easily hidden by my watch if need be. But, I wasn’t sure how that might fly with my Islamic friends. Given my love of China, my passion for learning Mandarin, and my strong affection for the Beijing International Christian Fellowship (the most amazing church I worship with in Beijing), I decided to go with the Chinese characters for Faith, Hope, and Love (also used in the BICF logo). And, it looked best on my leg, just above my right ankle. I guess I could hide this tattoo if I needed to, but why get a tattoo if you’re just going to cover it up. Besides, while I approve of tattoos, I certainly do not approve of wearing crew socks with shorts. I may be 50 years old, but I sure don’t want to look like it. The who of the decision was really easy. There just aren’t that many options in Abilene, Texas.
You’d be surprised how my “street cred” has improved, at least with the people whose opinions I really care about. These folks never ask why I got a tattoo. They ask what it means, which begs the question I really hope they’ll ask, “Why faith, hope, and love?” Talk about opening doors to meaningful conversation.
I had a ton of those conversations yesterday at Convoy of Hope DC (http://convoydc.org). My new DC friends could care less about me having a tattoo. They’re more concerned about putting food on the table, medical care, and opportunity for their kids. You know, the stuff of life most of us take for granted because it’s always there. Funny, isn’t, how twisted up we get about tattoos when the rest of life is so easy. Anyway, I had a really great day, not just talking about my tattoo, but actually living what it means. It’s not easy living life without faith, and faith is all about hope. Love? Well, it’s the best (and the greatest, according to Scripture).
Beyond all the other stuff you’d expect from a day of serving others, my favorite part was looking women and men in the eyes, shaking their hands, and saying hello. Such an easy thing to do, and packed with incredible blessing. Human worth and dignity is so easily communicated when we let go of petty notions about so many things that just don’t matter, and we focus on people who do matter. I guess that’s what being like Jesus is all about.
- Greg and Hainey Staley and Wayne
- Let the Children Come!
- Job Fair/Resume Writing Tent
- Prayer Tent
- Haircut Tent
- Hot Dogs and Hamburgers
- Kid Zone
- Family Portrait Tent
- Health Services Tent
- 10,000+ Served
- Faith, Hope, and Love
















So you finally did it! Congrats on upping your street cred (in a non-felonious kind of way, that is). I really like it; and it looks good on you. Since someone in your family already had theirs, when are the other two going to go under the needle?!?!
I’m not 50 yet, Rebecca!
I LOVE it (yes, that is a play on words)!
I have mine on my right ankle, too and would not want it anywhere else-it is where I had always wanted it, and I have the same sentiments-if you are going to get a tattoo, why get it somewhere no one would see it?!
I bet that is a great conversation starter, and hope it generates lots of great discussions in China!
Well, I read Chinese characters, and your tattoo actually says “Help! There’s a hog in my kitchen!”
Just joshin’. Very cool post. What a great church.
You are 50???? Surely not!!I have been keeping up with your family’s recent journeys and want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Your tatoo speaks of your heart and I am happy for you. Take care of yourself!!!